Monday, July 19, 2010

An Aspect of Tantra Sex- Worshiping the Female

An Aspect of Tantra Sex- Worshiping the Female
Cunnilingus: is a part of the sexual technique in Hindu Tantra. A useful technique for some of you dudes who lack that putting it down capability. You know a weak penis game. lol Tantra Sex gives you a chance to make up in your weak area. Though the Kama sutra is mostly silent on oral sex, yet the art of tantric gives it great importance. Tantra is a slow exploration and love on the path to God, so by inference it stands to reason that oral exploration and sex with your partner will be high on the agenda. Tantric philosophy brings out the fact that any search for knowledge is part of our everyday life and sex is part of it. It points out that the senses that include touch, smell, taste, sight and hearing have all a great part to play in the path to eternal bliss. Thus sensuality and sexuality will need all your senses to be harnessed, as they are significant parts of tantra. So you must be aware of your and your partner’s body in all its details.

As part of this technique the worship of the woman's sex is of great importance. This can be done with your tongue and lips. Good oral sex or cunilingus is a technique and needs to be mastered. The aim is sexual awakening and the lover must concentrate on the clitoris, which is the most sensitive part of a woman body. It is best to be gentle and soft and treat it like a rose. Brush it lightly with your lips and then circle it with your tongue. Stimulate it slowly and then lick the entire length of it till the cavorting of the thighs of your partner shows that you are winning.

Follow up by a soft touch of the Perineum the skin between the anus and vagina - but continue only if your partner is willing and receptive otherwise continue on the clitoris.

Follow up by gently licking the labia or the nether lips. Lick it with long rasping strokes and savor the delight of the arousal of your partner. Lastly make it a point to insert your tongue inside the woman. This is an expression of love and enter her slowly and then see how much of your tongue can enter her. This is a penance and needs to be done for a build up to ultimate moment. Sex is an elevating experience and it should be matter of satisfaction and gratification. Even for a moment in case you forget about Tantra and God, still this should be an elevating experience.
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Sir Natural Five personal Tips:

1. Start slow

Don't be in a hurry to attack her clit. Kiss, nibble, and suck on her mouth, her breasts, and her thighs. Like any sex act, she needs to be relaxed and ready before you start getting serious. Even when you do make it down there, kiss and lick and suck on all of her, not just her clit. Her labia need attention too, and many women love having a tongue pushed up inside of them.

2. Find the clit

You need to find the spot near or on her clit that is "just right" for her, the area that, with every flick of your tongue, sends surges of pleasure through her body. No, we're not going to draw you a picture, or describe a roadmap. The best way to find it is simply to ask her. Each woman is slightly different in how she wants to be stimulated, so tell her to give you guidance as your explore her nether regions.
Note: some women find direct clitoral stimulation too intense. You need to communicate to find the way to stimulate her best.

3. Relax your tongue
Many men tense up their tongues and flick the tip furiously against her clit. That's all wrong. A relaxed tongue will do the trick better, using the broad flat part, whether you flick it or just bob your head.

4. Use your hands

Your hands are free, so use them! A little finger-loving is a great complement to clitoral stimulation. You can also caress her labia, lubed up with her own juices, of course. If you're an adventuresome couple, even try putting a finger or two up her ass. However, be careful not to put them anywhere near the vagina after that. A pair of latex gloves and water-based lube will definitely come in handy.

5. Get down to business

Once you've gotten her excited and figured out her hot spots, it's time to get down to business. Flick your tongue with a steady rhythm over her clit. Don't stop, and don't change the rhythm. That's the key to making her come: patience and a steady stroke. Don't vary things too much, and for goodness sake, don't ask her "did you come yet?" Let her fall naturally into an intense, mind-blowing orgasm

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In Good Health
Sir Natural

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