Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Monday, July 19, 2010
An Aspect of Tantra Sex- Worshiping the Female
An Aspect of Tantra Sex- Worshiping the Female
Cunnilingus: is a part of the sexual technique in Hindu Tantra. A useful technique for some of you dudes who lack that putting it down capability. You know a weak penis game. lol Tantra Sex gives you a chance to make up in your weak area. Though the Kama sutra is mostly silent on oral sex, yet the art of tantric gives it great importance. Tantra is a slow exploration and love on the path to God, so by inference it stands to reason that oral exploration and sex with your partner will be high on the agenda. Tantric philosophy brings out the fact that any search for knowledge is part of our everyday life and sex is part of it. It points out that the senses that include touch, smell, taste, sight and hearing have all a great part to play in the path to eternal bliss. Thus sensuality and sexuality will need all your senses to be harnessed, as they are significant parts of tantra. So you must be aware of your and your partner’s body in all its details.
As part of this technique the worship of the woman's sex is of great importance. This can be done with your tongue and lips. Good oral sex or cunilingus is a technique and needs to be mastered. The aim is sexual awakening and the lover must concentrate on the clitoris, which is the most sensitive part of a woman body. It is best to be gentle and soft and treat it like a rose. Brush it lightly with your lips and then circle it with your tongue. Stimulate it slowly and then lick the entire length of it till the cavorting of the thighs of your partner shows that you are winning.
Follow up by a soft touch of the Perineum the skin between the anus and vagina - but continue only if your partner is willing and receptive otherwise continue on the clitoris.
Follow up by gently licking the labia or the nether lips. Lick it with long rasping strokes and savor the delight of the arousal of your partner. Lastly make it a point to insert your tongue inside the woman. This is an expression of love and enter her slowly and then see how much of your tongue can enter her. This is a penance and needs to be done for a build up to ultimate moment. Sex is an elevating experience and it should be matter of satisfaction and gratification. Even for a moment in case you forget about Tantra and God, still this should be an elevating experience.
Information brought to you by Sir Natural of www.PinkLotusHealth.org
Sir Natural Five personal Tips:
1. Start slow
Don't be in a hurry to attack her clit. Kiss, nibble, and suck on her mouth, her breasts, and her thighs. Like any sex act, she needs to be relaxed and ready before you start getting serious. Even when you do make it down there, kiss and lick and suck on all of her, not just her clit. Her labia need attention too, and many women love having a tongue pushed up inside of them.
2. Find the clit
You need to find the spot near or on her clit that is "just right" for her, the area that, with every flick of your tongue, sends surges of pleasure through her body. No, we're not going to draw you a picture, or describe a roadmap. The best way to find it is simply to ask her. Each woman is slightly different in how she wants to be stimulated, so tell her to give you guidance as your explore her nether regions.
Note: some women find direct clitoral stimulation too intense. You need to communicate to find the way to stimulate her best.
3. Relax your tongue
Many men tense up their tongues and flick the tip furiously against her clit. That's all wrong. A relaxed tongue will do the trick better, using the broad flat part, whether you flick it or just bob your head.
4. Use your hands
Your hands are free, so use them! A little finger-loving is a great complement to clitoral stimulation. You can also caress her labia, lubed up with her own juices, of course. If you're an adventuresome couple, even try putting a finger or two up her ass. However, be careful not to put them anywhere near the vagina after that. A pair of latex gloves and water-based lube will definitely come in handy.
5. Get down to business
Once you've gotten her excited and figured out her hot spots, it's time to get down to business. Flick your tongue with a steady rhythm over her clit. Don't stop, and don't change the rhythm. That's the key to making her come: patience and a steady stroke. Don't vary things too much, and for goodness sake, don't ask her "did you come yet?" Let her fall naturally into an intense, mind-blowing orgasm
Here is a link to some great 3D Animated effect position
http://www.sexinfo101.com/cunnilinguspositions.shtml
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In Good Health
Sir Natural
Cunnilingus: is a part of the sexual technique in Hindu Tantra. A useful technique for some of you dudes who lack that putting it down capability. You know a weak penis game. lol Tantra Sex gives you a chance to make up in your weak area. Though the Kama sutra is mostly silent on oral sex, yet the art of tantric gives it great importance. Tantra is a slow exploration and love on the path to God, so by inference it stands to reason that oral exploration and sex with your partner will be high on the agenda. Tantric philosophy brings out the fact that any search for knowledge is part of our everyday life and sex is part of it. It points out that the senses that include touch, smell, taste, sight and hearing have all a great part to play in the path to eternal bliss. Thus sensuality and sexuality will need all your senses to be harnessed, as they are significant parts of tantra. So you must be aware of your and your partner’s body in all its details.
As part of this technique the worship of the woman's sex is of great importance. This can be done with your tongue and lips. Good oral sex or cunilingus is a technique and needs to be mastered. The aim is sexual awakening and the lover must concentrate on the clitoris, which is the most sensitive part of a woman body. It is best to be gentle and soft and treat it like a rose. Brush it lightly with your lips and then circle it with your tongue. Stimulate it slowly and then lick the entire length of it till the cavorting of the thighs of your partner shows that you are winning.
Follow up by a soft touch of the Perineum the skin between the anus and vagina - but continue only if your partner is willing and receptive otherwise continue on the clitoris.
Follow up by gently licking the labia or the nether lips. Lick it with long rasping strokes and savor the delight of the arousal of your partner. Lastly make it a point to insert your tongue inside the woman. This is an expression of love and enter her slowly and then see how much of your tongue can enter her. This is a penance and needs to be done for a build up to ultimate moment. Sex is an elevating experience and it should be matter of satisfaction and gratification. Even for a moment in case you forget about Tantra and God, still this should be an elevating experience.
Information brought to you by Sir Natural of www.PinkLotusHealth.org
Sir Natural Five personal Tips:
1. Start slow
Don't be in a hurry to attack her clit. Kiss, nibble, and suck on her mouth, her breasts, and her thighs. Like any sex act, she needs to be relaxed and ready before you start getting serious. Even when you do make it down there, kiss and lick and suck on all of her, not just her clit. Her labia need attention too, and many women love having a tongue pushed up inside of them.
2. Find the clit
You need to find the spot near or on her clit that is "just right" for her, the area that, with every flick of your tongue, sends surges of pleasure through her body. No, we're not going to draw you a picture, or describe a roadmap. The best way to find it is simply to ask her. Each woman is slightly different in how she wants to be stimulated, so tell her to give you guidance as your explore her nether regions.
Note: some women find direct clitoral stimulation too intense. You need to communicate to find the way to stimulate her best.
3. Relax your tongue
Many men tense up their tongues and flick the tip furiously against her clit. That's all wrong. A relaxed tongue will do the trick better, using the broad flat part, whether you flick it or just bob your head.
4. Use your hands
Your hands are free, so use them! A little finger-loving is a great complement to clitoral stimulation. You can also caress her labia, lubed up with her own juices, of course. If you're an adventuresome couple, even try putting a finger or two up her ass. However, be careful not to put them anywhere near the vagina after that. A pair of latex gloves and water-based lube will definitely come in handy.
5. Get down to business
Once you've gotten her excited and figured out her hot spots, it's time to get down to business. Flick your tongue with a steady rhythm over her clit. Don't stop, and don't change the rhythm. That's the key to making her come: patience and a steady stroke. Don't vary things too much, and for goodness sake, don't ask her "did you come yet?" Let her fall naturally into an intense, mind-blowing orgasm
Here is a link to some great 3D Animated effect position
http://www.sexinfo101.com/cunnilinguspositions.shtml
http://ads.associatedcontent.com/www/delivery/ck.php?n=a14de4a9&cb=1358771378
Check out my other blog at http://sirnatural.livejournal.com/
In Good Health
Sir Natural
Sunday, July 18, 2010
indications that your V-jay jay is becoming loose
Indications of a Loose V-Jay Jay
Hey ladies here are some small indication that your Vjay jay is a lil airy…. some indications that your vagina is becoming loose, such as:
• You need to insert larger objects into your V-Jay Jay to feel stimulation.
• You're having difficulty gripping your index finger with your vagina.
• Your V-Jay Jay does not completely close when you're not aroused.
• You can insert three or more fingers into your vagina with little or no resistance.
• You have to work harder to reach orgasm than before.
• You can't satisfy your partner like you used to.
How to Tighten Your Vagina
One way to tighten your vagina during sex is to avoid too much arousal, but this is not recommended since you will not enjoy sex. Don't sacrifice your own sexual experience just because you want to satisfy your partner. There are other ways to tighten your vagina, including the following.
• Kegel Exercises: Learn how to do kegel exercises to strengthen the muscles located in the pelvic floor, which is the hammock that holds pelvic organs in place (Tips on how to do kegel exercises). They increase sexual pleasure by making pelvic muscles stronger and more elastic. They can also improve your bladder tone, so you don't always leak urine. The best thing about them is that you can do them any time and anywhere without anyone knowing. Here's how you do Kegel exercises:
•
o Step 1: As you're lying or sitting down, try to contract the muscles you use to stop urinating. You should feel the muscles squeezing your anus and urethra. You're not exercising the right muscles if your buttocks or stomach tighten.
o Step 2: Once you've found the right muscles to contract, squeeze for three seconds, and then relax for another three seconds.
o Step 3: Repeat the exercise 10 to 15 times per session, and do this at least three times a day. Remember that Kegel exercises only work when they are done regularly. It could take eight to 10 weeks before you notice any improvement. Kegel exercises get more effective as you do them more frequently.
Consult your doctor if you feel like you're not doing the exercises correctly. He or she may recommend doing the exercises with biofeedback, which measures muscle tension and conveys information in real-time, so you know if you're doing the exercises right.
• Vaginal cones: These are weighted devices about the size of tampons that you put into your vagina for a period of time. A set of vaginal cones increases gradually in weight. Start with the lightest cone, insert it into your vagina, and then squeeze your muscles to hold it in place. Do this twice a day for about 15 minutes per session while doing your regular activities. Move on to the next heavier cone when you've successfully held the first one in place, and then work your way up to the heaviest.
• Neuromuscular Electrical Stimulation (NMES): In this method, a probe that generates electric current is placed inside the vagina. The electric current stimulates the muscles of the pelvic floor, causing them to contract and relax. NMES is performed every one to four days, and lasts for about 20 minutes per session. Treatment can last for weeks or longer, depending on the situation. Some health care providers allow you to perform these sessions in their offices, while others prescribe home treatment.
• Neocontrol: Neocontrol is a special chair that generates magnetic fields to stimulate pelvic muscles. A nurse or technician in a urologist’s office usually administers it. Each session lasts for 20 to 30 minutes and is done twice a week for about eight weeks.
• Manjakani or Oak Gall: Oak galls come from oak trees indigenous to Persia and Asia Minor. They are produced when leaves of the oak tree are penetrated by wasps. The resulting chemical reaction stimulates the leaves to produce a round hard ball called an oak gall. Oak galls have strong astringent properties that can supposedly tighten and firm up the muscles of the vaginal wall. It is said that they can restore elasticity and improve muscle tone, as well as reduce foul vaginal discharge.
• Vaginoplasty: Vaginoplasty is a surgical procedure that restores the muscle tone of the vagina, and tightens the vaginal canal. The surgeon removes excess lining on the vaginal wall to restore muscle tone. He also repairs soft tissues to decrease the diameter of the vagina.
Scalpels and lasers can be used to treat structural defects and tighten muscles. The procedure is usually fairly bloodless, and done on an outpatient basis. The surgeon also administers a local anesthesia, and you should be able to walk right after the procedure. The great thing about this is that you can resume your normal daily activities in just a few days. Your doctor though will probably recommend that you abstain from sex, use tampons, or douche for at least six weeks. Expect some mild swelling and light bleeding in the first 24 hours after the procedure. Any bruising or swelling should lessen or disappear within a day or two.
Whatever treatment you choose, make sure that you're doing it not only for your partner, but also for yourself. Your goal shouldn't be just to satisfy your sexual partner, but for you to also have a pleasurable and satisfying sexual experience. Keep in mind that sex is not all about penetration. It's a whole body experience that must be shared between you and your partner.
in good Health
Sir Natural
Check out my other blogs for tips on stay healthy http://sirnatural.livejournal.com
And my main site is Pinklotushealth.org
Hey ladies here are some small indication that your Vjay jay is a lil airy…. some indications that your vagina is becoming loose, such as:
• You need to insert larger objects into your V-Jay Jay to feel stimulation.
• You're having difficulty gripping your index finger with your vagina.
• Your V-Jay Jay does not completely close when you're not aroused.
• You can insert three or more fingers into your vagina with little or no resistance.
• You have to work harder to reach orgasm than before.
• You can't satisfy your partner like you used to.
How to Tighten Your Vagina
One way to tighten your vagina during sex is to avoid too much arousal, but this is not recommended since you will not enjoy sex. Don't sacrifice your own sexual experience just because you want to satisfy your partner. There are other ways to tighten your vagina, including the following.
• Kegel Exercises: Learn how to do kegel exercises to strengthen the muscles located in the pelvic floor, which is the hammock that holds pelvic organs in place (Tips on how to do kegel exercises). They increase sexual pleasure by making pelvic muscles stronger and more elastic. They can also improve your bladder tone, so you don't always leak urine. The best thing about them is that you can do them any time and anywhere without anyone knowing. Here's how you do Kegel exercises:
•
o Step 1: As you're lying or sitting down, try to contract the muscles you use to stop urinating. You should feel the muscles squeezing your anus and urethra. You're not exercising the right muscles if your buttocks or stomach tighten.
o Step 2: Once you've found the right muscles to contract, squeeze for three seconds, and then relax for another three seconds.
o Step 3: Repeat the exercise 10 to 15 times per session, and do this at least three times a day. Remember that Kegel exercises only work when they are done regularly. It could take eight to 10 weeks before you notice any improvement. Kegel exercises get more effective as you do them more frequently.
Consult your doctor if you feel like you're not doing the exercises correctly. He or she may recommend doing the exercises with biofeedback, which measures muscle tension and conveys information in real-time, so you know if you're doing the exercises right.
• Vaginal cones: These are weighted devices about the size of tampons that you put into your vagina for a period of time. A set of vaginal cones increases gradually in weight. Start with the lightest cone, insert it into your vagina, and then squeeze your muscles to hold it in place. Do this twice a day for about 15 minutes per session while doing your regular activities. Move on to the next heavier cone when you've successfully held the first one in place, and then work your way up to the heaviest.
• Neuromuscular Electrical Stimulation (NMES): In this method, a probe that generates electric current is placed inside the vagina. The electric current stimulates the muscles of the pelvic floor, causing them to contract and relax. NMES is performed every one to four days, and lasts for about 20 minutes per session. Treatment can last for weeks or longer, depending on the situation. Some health care providers allow you to perform these sessions in their offices, while others prescribe home treatment.
• Neocontrol: Neocontrol is a special chair that generates magnetic fields to stimulate pelvic muscles. A nurse or technician in a urologist’s office usually administers it. Each session lasts for 20 to 30 minutes and is done twice a week for about eight weeks.
• Manjakani or Oak Gall: Oak galls come from oak trees indigenous to Persia and Asia Minor. They are produced when leaves of the oak tree are penetrated by wasps. The resulting chemical reaction stimulates the leaves to produce a round hard ball called an oak gall. Oak galls have strong astringent properties that can supposedly tighten and firm up the muscles of the vaginal wall. It is said that they can restore elasticity and improve muscle tone, as well as reduce foul vaginal discharge.
• Vaginoplasty: Vaginoplasty is a surgical procedure that restores the muscle tone of the vagina, and tightens the vaginal canal. The surgeon removes excess lining on the vaginal wall to restore muscle tone. He also repairs soft tissues to decrease the diameter of the vagina.
Scalpels and lasers can be used to treat structural defects and tighten muscles. The procedure is usually fairly bloodless, and done on an outpatient basis. The surgeon also administers a local anesthesia, and you should be able to walk right after the procedure. The great thing about this is that you can resume your normal daily activities in just a few days. Your doctor though will probably recommend that you abstain from sex, use tampons, or douche for at least six weeks. Expect some mild swelling and light bleeding in the first 24 hours after the procedure. Any bruising or swelling should lessen or disappear within a day or two.
Whatever treatment you choose, make sure that you're doing it not only for your partner, but also for yourself. Your goal shouldn't be just to satisfy your sexual partner, but for you to also have a pleasurable and satisfying sexual experience. Keep in mind that sex is not all about penetration. It's a whole body experience that must be shared between you and your partner.
in good Health
Sir Natural
Check out my other blogs for tips on stay healthy http://sirnatural.livejournal.com
And my main site is Pinklotushealth.org
Best Sex Position ( to spice up your love life )
We surveyed our readers and asked them to divulge the favorite sex positions they enjoy. The following 10 sex positions are the HOTTEST of the bunch. We're sure you'll agree, these aren't fads that will phase out faster than jelly bracelets; they're brilliant bedroom moves every hot-blooded couple should add to their lineup.
Cowgirl – One of the best things about the Cowgirl position is the amount of clitoral stimulation it provides. The more the woman leans forward, the better the friction.
The CAT – Coital Alignment Technique – The Coital Alignment Technique is credited with producing more orgasms for women than any other position. Try it tonight. I’ll guarantee, you’ll never see Missionary the same way again!
Doggy Style – This deep penetration is deliciously primitive because it’s the way animals do it. It’s him at his most dominant and you at your most submissive and vulnerable.
The Anvil – The Anvil is a killer move, which has gained recognition through the years because of the extra stimulation of the G Spot.
Asian Cowgirl – Take her to the Peak of Pleasure Mountain with this rodeo ride of a lifetime. Ideal for when guys are low on stamina or in need of a break let her do the work and sit back and enjoy the view.
The Elephant – Animalistic, primitive, and positioned to hit super-sensitive spots, this one puts him in charge of her pleasure.
Camel Style – The woman lies on her side, one leg straight out, the other raised or to the side. The man enters her, straddling her outstretched leg and supporting her raised leg.
Inverted Missionary – The Inverted Missionary position is exactly what it sounds like, the Missionary position with her on top and him underneath.
Spooning – Many women also love ’spooning’ because of the intimacy it offers. The woman and man lie on their sides both facing the same direction, with man behind the woman. The man slides in and both partners gently rock to orgasm.
Deckchair – A favorite of many men because of the sense of power that comes from folding their partner, the position definitely doesn't leave her out. When the man puts his weight on her legs, it improves the angle of penetration to better hit the g-spot.
Two of my absolute favorite positions that give both parties’ hi Pleasure Point are
Sex Position Name - Plow
Description
He's standing up, while she's upside down in front of him, on her hands and elbows. Think doggy style, except he's standing up and she's upside down. He has great control of the motion, and she's got a new angle that hits the spot.
Sex Position Name - Dominator
Description
If she's ever taken a yoga lesson, this sex position is for him! She's using her shoulders and elbows to support her hips so she's upside down. He steps in from the top and drills down. He's got great control of motion, and both partners have a great view of the action.
Small Penis Sex Position
Now these position change if you are not so well endowed so I cant leave anybody out. The average erect penis is estimated to be somewhere around six inches in length. If you’re one of the millions who fall a bit short of this statistic, you may have concerns about size in relation to your sexual performance. Fret not: While it’s true that size can have its advantages, it’s not really the length that matters -- it’s the width. Additionally, women don’t particularly enjoy having their cervices rammed into, which often happens when a man is overly endowed. There is nothing sexy about painful intercourse, and that’s precisely what many women complain of when a man’s penis is too large. Believe it or not, the right combination of foreplay and stimulation can make a woman worship a small penis just as readily as a large one.
The Kama Sutra classifies men by the
size of their penises, calling a man with a small penis a "hare man." The other two categories are "bull man" and "horse man." However, the following 6 variations of common sex positions will ensure that even a "hare man" gets in as deep as possible during sexual intercourse and satisfies the woman he's with.
1) Man-on-top: The woman tilts her pelvis down, aiming her vaginal opening toward the mattress, and holds her bent knees up toward her chest while keeping her head elevated on pillows. This will increase pressure against her vaginal walls and shorten her vaginal canal.
2) V-formation: As the woman lies on her back, the man should lift her legs in the air, hold her ankles, and spread her legs apart, forming a V, and then make his way inside her.
3) Rear Entry: The woman should be on all fours. The man should enter the woman from behind, but he should open his legs, and she should mostly close hers. The woman should her angle her body down by resting her head and shoulders flat on the bed. This will help her feel tighter, or the man feel bigger, however you prefer to look at it.
4) Woman Sitting: The man stands or kneels while the woman sits on the edge of the bed, sofa, or counter top. When the man enters her, it will be at a slight upward angle, so his penis should hit the top wall of her vagina. He'll feel pressure and tightness as he hits that wall.
5) Man Sitting: The man sits, and the woman lies on her back. She may want to put a pillow under her hips. The man brings her knees to her ears, and she holds her legs there as he penetrates her.
6) Woman Face Down: The woman should lie face down on her stomach, legs straight out and closed. A pillow may be placed under the woman's hips. With his knees bent, but keeping his torso upright, the man should place
his genitals just under the woman's buttocks and spread her legs on either side of her body, Being careful not to let his weight drop on her, he then makes his way inside. The woman may initially have to open her legs in order for the man to get his penis inside.
Though sexual intercourse is only one aspect of sexual relations between a man and a woman, it's an important part. The size of a man's penis need not affect the pleasure of intercourse for either the man or the woman. These 6 penetrating positions for a small penis allow the man with a small to average penis to get the feeling of tightness he craves, and the woman the feeling of fullness she enjoys, leaving both happy and satisfied.
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Saturday, July 17, 2010
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